On My Mind
This is where I share what I’m learning, noticing, and noodling on—from leadership lessons and people systems to the messy, beautiful work of being human.
Some posts are practical. Some are personal. All are written with the hope that they spark something useful (or at least familiar) in you.
When the New Year Starts Squishy: A Leadership Reminder That You’re Not Behind
The new year promises fresh starts — but real leadership rarely begins with a clean slate. This reflection explores what it means to lead intentionally when life is messy, the ceiling is leaking, and you already feel behind.
How Leaders Can Stop Rushing Through Life: A Practical Guide to Presence, Boundaries, and “Enough”
As leaders, we often race through our days, convinced there’s never enough time. This reflection explores how to slow the mental sprint, practice presence, and build healthier boundaries — especially during the busiest seasons of the year.
Leadership Lessons from a Blue Colored Pencil: The Difference Between Consequences and Punishment
A story from a child’s classroom offers a profound reminder for leaders: accountability isn’t about punishment — it’s about connection and integrity. Here’s how to apply that truth to your leadership and team culture.
The Real Wisdom of Turning 45: Leadership Lessons in Uncertainty and Honesty
At 45, I thought I’d have life figured out. Instead, I’m learning that real leadership isn’t about having answers—it’s about being honest when you don’t. Here's how I’m finding wisdom in the messy middle.
From Pajama Standoffs to Leadership Wins: Why Curiosity Beats Reactivity
What bedtime battles with a 5-year-old taught me about better leadership. If you’re snapping at your team or stuck in reactivity, this tiny mindset shift might be your new superpower.
What 250 Pilates Classes Taught Me About Habits, Identity, and Real Change
After 250 Pilates classes, I learned something more powerful than perfect form: that real change is a result of consistent, tiny choices. Here's what that means for your goals—and your leadership.
What Mah-Jong Taught Me About Leadership, Self-Trust, and the Power of Play
Learning to play Chinese mah-jong taught me unexpected lessons about self-leadership, decision-making, and why play might just be the smartest next move when you're feeling stuck.
Why Rest is a Leadership Strategy: Slow Down to Lead Better
In a world of hustle, rest feels radical. But if you’re leading a team—or a family—rest might be your most strategic move. Here’s why slowing down grows better leaders.